What if everything is Awesome

  How to begin a healthy relationship? 10  Pieces of advice to my 16-year-old self Winning someone's sexual attention is quite easy. But winning someone's attention and unravel his curiosity for your personality is an entirely different thing. We are talking of another realm of emotions and motives for actions. When I was a teenage girl, I thought that winning someone is when you succeed to get him into your bed. What I did not get is that I received something different from what I intended to gain. What actually I was looking for, was someone to make me feel better about myself, feel more attractive, more beautiful, sexier, smarter, more sophisticated. All men will throw all kinds of compliments to have you. What I really wanted was to feel appreciated, not to feel lonely.  For many years I was angry at my mother that did not teach me that basic lesson about sexuality versus love. If I could, I would tell my 16-year-old self this: 1. First, feel good with yourself. You ...

Should I do whatever I want? What is the difference between a craving and a passion? Which of my wishes I should follow and which I should ignore? As a young woman and a teenage girl, I made a lot of mistakes by making decisions based on a faulty premise: "I should do whatever comes to mind". Only at the age of 27 and after a lot of sores I've made my heart, I  understood what I was doing wrong all my life! There are 3 main categories of wishes and desires: 1.  "Wishes from the heart": Your true passions and things that are aligned with your true self. For example: Writing makes me feel good, I wish to be a writer. I really like this guy's personality and I'd like to get to know him better and make some good memories together. I love the beach, and adventures, I wish to save money and travel the world to tropical islands. 2.  "Wishes from the body": Your wishes, momentary egoistic bodily craves, that come and go. For example: I want sugar NOW. ...